Pampered vs Independant

Following is a conversation between me and a fren. I m not trying to boast about myself, or to look down on pampered frens, i m juz like everyone else, maybe i m even a nobody, but i really wanna all of us to think, who are we going to be in the future? (the real name had been edited for privacy)

IT: eh..
IT: nk tny 1 pendapat u blh?
IT: u kan org lame
Ray Yuz: sile
IT:
IT: i ade tgk 1 crite cine...
IT: klu u diberi pilihan antara ur dad dgn ppuan u cinta
IT: u pilih yg mane
IT: ?
IT: u can only choose 1
Ray Yuz: dad
Ray Yuz: i can go to hell if i disobey him
Ray Yuz: but i wont go to hell for disobeying d women i love
Ray Yuz: except..if that women is my mum
IT: hmm..
IT: dlm crite 2 i tgk tgk pilih ppuan
Ray Yuz: anyway it depend on what u r disobeying
IT: last 2 dad die maafkn die
Ray Yuz: dah nama pun cina
IT: hahaha
IT: ape plk kaitan dgn cina?
Ray Yuz: kalau cina islam, mungkin lain citer dia
IT: oo..
IT: ala...
IT: klu difikirkn blk..
IT: ayh mane x syg ank
IT: btl x?
Ray Yuz: tau takpe..kecuali ayah yg x guna
Ray Yuz: tau buat anak je
Ray Yuz: ada kawan i, meninggal pasal takmo dgr cakap doktor
IT: 0o.
Ray Yuz: bini suruh itu ini, takmo dgr
Ray Yuz: sbb tu i ckp, sndri mau igt
IT: mmg la..
IT: tp klu i,i suke org srh..
IT:
Ray Yuz: i show u d way, u wanna go or not, its ur choice
IT: klu blh tlg suap lg ubt tau
IT:
Ray Yuz: org yg suka disuruh, one day akan susah, bila org yg diharap menyuruh dah takde
Ray Yuz: i always remember that
IT: nk buat mcm mane
IT: dh mmg i mcm 2
Ray Yuz: org lain, kalau dpt hidup mcm i, mungkin akan spoilt
Ray Yuz: the only son
Ray Yuz: the youngest
Ray Yuz: i can juz ask what i want
Ray Yuz: but i dont
IT: 2 beza antara u dgn i
IT: hehehe
Ray Yuz: so..up 2 u if u wanna keep on pampering urself
IT:
Ray Yuz: i'd rather suffer like now
Ray Yuz: than to ask money still from me parents
IT: hehehe...
IT: terase la plk..
Ray Yuz: sampai my mum ckp i sombong
IT: ni i nk papa tkr krete i
IT:
Ray Yuz: but then i told her
Ray Yuz: i m not dying yet
IT: bgs la u..
Ray Yuz: bkn sombong, but i'll do my best
Ray Yuz: on my own
IT: good...
Ray Yuz: u nak mintak apa kat papa u, tu hak u
IT:
Ray Yuz: but dont b surprised, one day, u gonna miss that too much till it hurts u a lot
IT: yupp i know that
Ray Yuz: too many people juz live for today
Ray Yuz: not for what to come
IT: hmm..
IT: thats me
Ray Yuz: smlm i baru je nasihatkan my bro in law
IT: sal pe?
Ray Yuz: dont be like me..late in buying property
IT: oo
Ray Yuz: jgn terlalu nak bergaye, nak beli kereta itu ini
IT: hihihi
IT: terase plk
Ray Yuz: utamakan...beli rumah kecik pun takpe
Ray Yuz: its investment
IT: hehehe
IT: i dh ade rmh
IT: krete mau tkr
Ray Yuz: u buy car, its liability, and depreciate in value some more
IT: hehehe
Ray Yuz: i also inherit a lot, a bungalow...but i dont even live there
Ray Yuz: i buy my own apartment
IT: hmm..
IT: beza sgt la u n i...
IT: hehehe
Ray Yuz: i inherit a decent car, but i ask my mum to sell if no one wants
Ray Yuz: and i buy my own
Ray Yuz: so actually
IT: ok la 2..
Ray Yuz: beza tak beza
IT: beza la
Ray Yuz: up to u nak jadi mcm mana
IT: hehehe
IT: i plk suke mintak
IT: mintak je dpt
IT: hhehehe
IT: dari kecik mcm ni
IT: x blh ubah dh
IT:
Ray Yuz: one day u will remember this conversation
IT: yupp...
Ray Yuz: and dont feel sorry for not changing ur own attitude
Ray Yuz:
IT: i know...
Ray Yuz: people knows a lot
Ray Yuz: but do nothing about it
IT: yupp...
IT: juz like me
IT:
Ray Yuz:
IT: smp papa i ckp mcm ni...
IT: klu pa a xde nti mcm mane la i ni...
IT: ade ke laki yg mcm papa nk lyn i mcm bdk2 ni
Ray Yuz: and u r proud of it? i m sorry for u...god bless!
IT: not proud..
IT: but try 2 change
Ray Yuz: good
IT: tp slow2
Ray Yuz: coz u juz said..u will never change
Ray Yuz: that is a hopeless statement
IT: never change doesn mean don wanna
IT: huh...

And it actually just not ends there. Moral of the story: Lu fikir la sendiri!

...dan sedikit pengumuman:

Tahniah saya ucapkan kepada saudara Shukri yang bekerja sebagai juruwang di Kedai Jiran, Vista Pinggiran Apartments, tempat saya selalu membeli barang, kerana telah menjadi ahli berdaftar ETDP mulai semalam. Ini menunjukkan, ETDP adalah untuk semua, tanpa mengira latar belakang pekerjaan dan taraf hidup serta pendidikan. Semoga saudara Shukri bakal sukses bersama ahli-ahli ETDP yang lain, insya-Allah!